ya know, I was thinking about it, and.. I actually hate the status ‘Boyfriend and Girlfriend’ because that’s exactly what it is. A status. I don’t want to be classified as somebodies girlfriend because to me that makes it seem like we are bragging about it, or are simply ‘boyfriend and girlfriend’ because we wanted the title over our heads. If two people are dating, they are together. They are a couple. The phrase ‘boyfriend and girlfriend’ seems like something a 12 year old would say, and for that reason it bugs me, because then it makes it seem like we are immature and incapable of feeling love. I might be really fucking weird, but those are my thoughts on the matter. I have no problem with calling the person my boyfriend if somebody ask’s what we are to each other, but I will probably and would prefer to say “We are a couple.” or “We are together.” because that’s what we are.

Relationships aren’t that hard if both people involved actually value each other and are committed. It’s not rocket science.

If you had the power to know when and how you were going to die; would you use that power. would you stare death in the face for a brief moment and decide what you were going to do with the rest of your life? Well I wouldn’t. If it was me who was gifted with that power, I would never use it. I think some people may want to know when their time is, but myself; I’d rather live everyday of my life to the fullest, rather than feel pressured, and doing things just because your leaving this life soon. For me, I know and believe that death will come to all of us sooner or later. Whether its natural or unnatural we all must face it. Some are scared of it, some conquer it for a little while, but why should we be afraid of something that visit’s all of us? It angers me that so many of us cry over death, and that we can’t stop it from occurring. It seems everyday more and more people think about death and try to bring it upon themselves faster than necessary. One day death will not occur, but until we are so lucky; or possibly unfortunate, to witness that, We must face the harsh reality that we must all die someday, so why not embrace life and be thankful, because you never know when your time will be, or when someone you love will pass. Tell someone they are worth living for give them a smile, leave them breathless.. for it may be the last thing they will ever know.

As i sit here in the silence, tears run down my face.
The walls that once represented my security now crumble around me.
The floor is giving way to the weight of my sorrow.
It feels like I’m walking on broken glass, each step hurting more than the last.
This casualty we call life, must one day fall away, too far out of reach for you to grab onto again.
And you to will have lost the game that we must all play.
Hear the wind. Whispering the answers in your ear. breathe.
Show no emotion, receive only glares.
Stop pretending.

Guys:
First off, us girls don’t judge you on how you ask us out. We may talk about it for a period of a week, which could be one of the worst week’s of your life, but after that, it’s over. we have moved on. I’m talking for girls that are somewhat like me here when i say, we appreciate someone who is brave enough to just be cool. Walk up, ask, and that’s it. To be friends before hand is also a bonus, because then we know somewhat about you first. We are not just one layered ‘things’, We usually go for someone who challenges us and pushes us to try something new.

Girls:
Ladies, this is not just a guys world. Whatever guy’s can do girl’s can do better, so be confident, instead of being with someone without actually knowing him, become friends, be cool, find out his interests. I think that would make a substantial difference. Ask him if he likes you as you do. We need to try to understand what pushes guys over the edge, whether that’s, needy, moody (which, in that case they my as well stop altogether…) or just to pushy. we need to understand that everyone has a boundary and its very easy to get lost and cross it.

It started with a crush.
Turned into love.
Then she told you what to do.
Now I’ve been crushed, and I’m not recovering
You were my support. my rock,
Well now my ‘rock’ is crumbling from under me.
I don’t know how ill survive without you.
I’ll have to figure it out. but without you,
It seems impossible.
The weight of this problem is unbearable.
Your crushing me. You love her.
I’m crushed. For my crush.

No one will ever reach perfection. People just lie to themselves to get by because their to disappointed with what they really are. Perfection in and of itself means to reach the end. Nothing is perfect. None of us will ever reach perfection. We won’t even be able to place our finger tips on the borderline of perfection. It really is a sad sad thing to see people who say their perfect. Their just the ones how are the farthest away from it. If this makes you mad then I’m only proving my point. People don’t and will not accept reality. They are to busy living in a blind world covered with ignorance and self loathing. The more you see how imperfect the world is the more you will find the real beauty in imperfection. If you chose not to, then I pity you, for you will never find happiness in your life only because you are to arrogant to see the beauty in imperfection. and there’s no way you can sit there and tell me that your not truly happy with your life. You’d only be lying to yourself if you say that you are.